In the psychodynamic-oriented college psychological counseling practice, besides the explaining repairing effect progress, it is necessary to re-examine the changes of binary counseling- guidance relations from the view of inter-subjectivity and, with the real cases, to understand how to open the door at the encounter moment with the re-start trigger point. The inter-subjective philosophical viewpoint is not only a balance of and reflection on the tendency of universal relationship, but also a tool for university psychological researchers to reexamine power distribution in the field of consulting so that they can liberate them selves from the organizational anxiety and messianic fantasies and be better absorbed into the consultation process.